Showing posts with label honesty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label honesty. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Learn From Them

Today I heard the truth.  A man corrected a misperception someone else had of him, even though he could have let it continue.  I found his unsolicited honesty refreshing and beautiful.  

Once again the homeless man who I call "Manuel" sat before me.  A woman there with us said that Manuel had stopped using illicit substances.  Immediately Manuel set right this misconception about him.  "No, I'm using," he confessed, meaning that he has been using an illicit drug.  

"Oh, I thought you had stopped," she said.  

Again he could have let this inaccurate image of him continue, but again he told the truth.  "I did stop, but I started again.  I'm using now."  

From a homeless drug addict, I was instructed in the truth.  Jesus, who is The Truth,* comes to us in those who are the least among us,** and comes to instruct us in the truth.  

We can learn from the least of those among us.  We can learn from Jesus, who is still lovingly and persistently coming to us in the poor.  

We can learn to love honesty from those who are poor among us.  We learn about love from Jesus, who is in those who are the least among us.  

Let us listen to those who are poor.  Let us listen to Jesus.  Amen.  

* John 14:6 
** Matthew 25:40,45 

Saturday, July 8, 2017

Offering Fervent Prayers

Today I was relieved to see a particular homeless woman who I'll call "Anna" again here.  Anna showed up to our front porch this morning.  We went for a little walk together.  

Anna has been having a rough time.  In the last couple of weeks she has had a series of stressful interactions in which she has not been treated well, which is understating the circumstances.  

I shared with Anna about how I recently heard about some fervent prayer offered up by another Catholic Worker.  This other Catholic Worker told me that she had recently been greatly distressed about hearing of how a homeless friend of hers had been abused.  This other Catholic Worker channeled her grief into her prayer.  As she was praying the rosary, she wept as she thought of her homeless friend being abused.  In the midst of her tears, she seized upon that grief, and it catalyzed her to desperately clutch her rosary and ardently pray for both for her homeless friend as well as for those who had abused her.  

I tried to explain to Anna how I feel that when we feel we are being tested beyond our limits, it is exactly then that we are presented with our greatest opportunities to serve our neighbor.  I maintained that at such moments, we have such excellent chances to pray well because we mean it so much.  It is when we are sorely in need that we pray effectively.  

Anna told me that rather than praying to God, much of the time she just gets angry at God.  I shared with her how some of the saints struggled much with anger.  Although I didn't mention them specifically at the time, I was thinking about Saint Jerome and Saint Paul.  


I also told Anna that when I'm frustrated or tired, often I throw up my hands and tell God that I feel like I'm failing, that I'm not responding as He would like me to react in situations.  I shared with Anna how God is pleased when we talk to Him, even when we're angry.  At least then we're in contact with God.  At the time, I didn't think to mention it to Anna, but also, if we're expressing our anger to God, at least we're being honest with Him.  


Then Anna lamented that she feels that God is delighting in her misfortune.  I replied softly that God is deeply saddened when people mistreat each other.  I pointed out that God has given us our free will to do as we please; unfortunately some persons misuse their freedom by abusing their neighbor instead of loving their neighbor as themselves* as Jesus taught us to do.  I said to Anna that God does not enjoy our being mistreated, since God is love.**    

God is love, and so He loves us.  He wishes that we grow as individuals, and grow closer to Him.  We grow close to Him when we pray to Him.  When we face dire circumstances, let us pray to Him with all our heart, mind, soul and strength, loving Him with all our heart, mind, soul and strength.***  The God who loves us infinitely works all for the good of those who love Him.****  Thus God loves us in the midst of our ordeals, and in such trials we are presented with incredible opportunities to ask Him to work wonders in and through us, if we implore Him with all we have.  Let us turn to God, open our hearts to Him, love Him, and feel His infinite love.  Amen.  

* Matthew 22:39; Mark 12:31; Luke 10:27; Leviticus 19:18; Romans 13:9; Galatians 5:14 
** 1 John 4:8,16 
*** Deuteronomy 6:5; Deuteronomy 10:12; Matthew 22:37; Mark 12:30; Luke 10:27 
**** Romans 8:28 

Thursday, June 1, 2017

Plainly Loving Language

When we speak with someone, there is much left unsaid.  And yet we do not want to have regrets.  We want to express what is in our hearts that is longing to be released.  

If we but listen, we can hear the love of God that is knocking at the door of our hearts.  If we have let that love into our hearts,* that love in us is meant to be let out.  God calls us to love our neighbor** through our actions, and to speak plainly the language of love with our neighbor, whether they are rich or poor, whether they are luxuriously living in a mansion, or are huddled and shivering in sleeping bags and tents in the bushes.  
I have been trying to demonstrate to the homeless folks I love here in Redwood City that there is a deeper meaning to interactions they have with people who help them.  Recently I have told certain homeless friends of mine that when they receive food from people who aim to help them, it is not just about food.  Really, I have said to them, I have been trying to tell you that I love you.  

We wish to show you that you are worthy of respect.  You are receiving this love God is giving you through me because God loves you.  

And so when I have spoken so directly to my homeless friends who I so cherish, I feel as if I could say to them, that the time has come when I am no longer communicating with you in figures of speech, much like what Jesus said to His disciples just before His passion and death.***  It seems as if I could tell these dear homeless brothers and sisters of mine that now I am no longer just speaking with you through the metaphors of my actions.  Now I am speaking with you plainly.****  Finally I am talking with you in the plain language of love. 

Throughout much of His public ministry, Jesus spoke in parables and figures of speech.  Then on Maundy Thursday, He sat down with His disciples for the Last Supper, just before He was handed over to be condemned to death.*****  In that meal that night with His disciples, they saw a prefiguring of His sacrifice on the Cross.  While His disciples sat down to a meal of bread and wine, they received much more than food and drink; in the Eucharist, we receive nourishment of love from Jesus.  Having shown us on the night of the Last Supper how we are to celebrate the Eucharist, Jesus was about to die on Cross, and do what He had just said He was about to do.  He was showing them the greatest love one can have for one's friends, as He laid down His life for His friends.******  

When we try to show the greatest love we can have for our neighbor, when we die to ourselves, we live for our neighbor.  When we forget who we are, who society thinks we are supposed to be, when we disregard the message from society that we are to shun our brothers and sisters who are outcasts, then we can die to the disordered desires and hurtful ideas and selfish tendencies we have, so we can embrace our needy neighbor, and thus live for our neighbor.  

Once Jesus had spoken plainly to His disciples, just before He was handed over to be crucified, He told them that He did not have much more to say to them.*******  He had spoken The Truth honestly and openly with them, and thus there was not much else for Him to say.  

In telling these treasured homeless friends of mine that in trying to care for them, I am truly trying to tell them that I deeply love them, I have spoken plainly to them.  I have said what I really have to say to these homeless friends I so love.  And so I don't have much else to say.  

And so in a certain sense, I would be content if this were to be last blog entry I were ever to write.  Since this is the core of the message I feel that God brought me into the world to declare to my brothers and my sisters, I feel I have been embracing the vocation of love to which God has been calling me.    

For were I left to my own devices, I would be hesitant to say both that I am an unprofitable servant, and that I have only done my duty.  If I had not been instructed otherwise, I would lament that I am an unprofitable servant, and that I am not even sure that I can say that I have even done my duty.  However, since Jesus directed us to say in the end, "We are unprofitable servants; we have only done what we were obliged to do,"******** then I do proclaim those words.  Knowing that I have done what God has called me to do, to declare the truth to my homeless brothers and sisters, that they deserve respect and are clothed in dignity, since they are loved by God and by me, I rest secure in the loving promise that God, in His great mercy, will forgive me to the extent I have failed in performing this duty.  

And so, whether it is today, tomorrow, or fifty or more years from now, secure in the knowledge that I am called to lovingly embrace my homeless brothers and sisters, and that God, in His immense mercy will forgive me insofar as I fail in my best efforts to overwhelmingly love them, I joyfully proclaim that I am going home to the Father.*********  When I finally get back home, my dear brothers and sisters, please do not grieve for me, for it will be the most glorious day I have ever seen.  For my tiny, paltry, measly efforts to love will be overwhelmed by the unbelievably warm tender glow of the infinite love of God.  And thanks to His magnificent mercy, I shall bask in the glory of His infinite love for all eternity.  Amen.  

* Romans 5:5 
** Matthew 22:39; Mark 12:31; Luke 10:27; Leviticus 19:18; Romans 13:9; Galatians 5:14 
*** John 16:25 
**** John 16:29 
***** Matthew 26:26-29; Mark 14:22-25; Luke 22:14-20 
****** John 15:13 
******* John 14:30 
******** Luke 17:10 
********* John 16:16-17 

Tuesday, May 30, 2017

Peace Through Us

Jesus tells us first and foremost to love God with all our heart, with all our soul, and with all our mind.  He tells us second to love our neighbor as ourselves.*  

In these two most important commandments, Jesus directs us to love.  We are to let love flow out of us to God and to our neighbor.  God asks us to open our hearts to the Holy Spirit, to help us to love Him.**  God asks us to consent to Him loving our neighbor through us.  

To love God, I must also love my neighbor.  Anyone who claims to love God but hates his or her neighbor is a liar.***  

To love my neighbor, I must not judge my neighbor.****  If I am judging my neighbor, there is no room in my heart to love my neighbor.   

We judge persons when we see what we do not like in them.  When I encounter thoughts, words and actions I dislike, I am to despise them in myself.  I am to be outraged at the appalling tendencies I notice in myself.  

I believe that the path to salvation is paved with despising my own horrible tendencies and begging God to forgive me out of His great mercy. We receive the infinite gift of God's immense mercy when we turn to look at ourselves, acknowledge our own sinfulness, and implore His mercy.  

Since I prefer to direct my energies toward how I need to improve, rather than on where other people might need to change, last week I made a choice reflecting this aspiration I have.  As I have previously mentioned, Catholic Workers regularly protest outside the facilities of a manufacturer of armaments here in the San Francisco Bay Area.  Last week I was asked to choose the short writings we would read before and after our protest.  

In line with the sentiments I have expressed about trying to focus on how I need to improve, for our brief reading just before the protest, I selected a composition in which the Trappist monk Thomas Merton wrote 

Instead of loving what you think is peace, love other men and love God above all.  And instead of hating the people you think are warmakers, hate the appetites and the disorder in your own soul, which are the causes of war.  If you love peace, then hate injustice, hate tyranny, hate greed--but hate these things in yourself, not in another.  

I strive to love my neighbor, though often I find it challenging, and although often I fail.  We love our neighbor by taking an honest look at ourselves and how we need to improve so we can better love our neighbor.  

Thus I prefer to focus on what I need to do to treat people better than I do.  To help work for peace, we can examine our own thoughts, words and actions.  As Gandhi suggested, "You must be the change you want to see in the world."  

Herein rests the reason why I don't protest more than I do and why I don't write about protesting more than I do.  While I find it important to speak out against injustice, I strongly contend that it is far more appropriate to try to improve myself than it is to point out why others are inappropriately acting. Since I wish to witness to peace, I want God to bring about peace through me.  For God to bring about peace through me, I must open my heart to God so He can transform me and thus create peace in the world, right now, in this very moment.  

Consequently, for our short reading together immediately after the protest, I selected the prayer commonly attributed to Saint Francis, which beseeches God 

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me bring love.
Where there is offense, let me bring pardon.
Where there is discord, let me bring union.
Where there is error, let me bring truth.
Where there is doubt, let me bring faith.
Where there is despair, let me bring hope.
Where there is darkness, let me bring your light.
Where there is sadness, let me bring joy.
O Master, let me not seek as much
to be consoled as to console,
to be understood as to understand,
to be loved as to love,
for it is in giving that one receives,
it is in self-forgetting that one finds,
it is in pardoning that one is pardoned,
it is in dying that one is raised to eternal life.  


We can agree to God's plan to be channels of His peace.  We can consent to God bringing peace to the world through us.  

In every little fragment of time, in the present moment God is always extending His hand to us, inviting us to open our hearts to Him.  He is requesting that we assent to His will and open our hearts to Him, and love Him, so that He may enter into our hearts and love our neighbor through us, and thus bring peace into the world through us.  Let us open our hearts to God so He may abide in us,***** love through us and bring us peace.  Amen.  

* Matthew 22:37-39; Mark 12:30-31; Luke 10:27; Leviticus 19:18; Deuteronomy 6:5; Romans 13:9; Galatians 5:14 
** Romans 5:5 
*** 1 John 4:20 
**** Matthew 7:1; Luke 6:37 
***** John 15:7 

Monday, May 1, 2017

Song Of All

This day is a day on which workers are especially supported and encouraged.  Today in particular the common dream of bettering ourselves comes to the fore in a way it does not on other days.  

Today, the first day of May, has been known to many as May Day.  In 1886 workers organized in efforts to lead to a shorter work day.  In the course of those rallies and demonstrations, violence erupted between police and workers in an unfolding of events which has come to be known as the Haymarket Massacre.  In the outcry against that violence, workers became galvanized in solidarity with each other, such union still being expressed each year on May 1 in support of workers everywhere.  


Today is also the Feast Day of Saint Joseph the Worker.  In honor of Saint Joseph, the foster father of Jesus, Pope Pius XII established today as the Feast Day of Saint Joseph who worked as a carpenter as Jesus did.  

Saint Joseph is the patron saint of workers.  Thus workers pray and ask him to intercede with God for them.  


All workers may look to Saint Joseph for his assistance.  All workers are engaged in a universal struggle, despite their being individual workers.  Regardless of their individual identity, all workers have common aspirations.  All workers are involved in a shared endeavor.  Thus employees often join together in solidarity with each other.  


Thus workers have the right to form unions.  Pope Leo XIII affirmed this right in his papal encyclical entitled "Rerum Novarum," or "Of The New Things."  


Workers share a common dream.  They are aspiring toward the same goal.  

As human beings generally as well we have much in common with each other in our deepest longings.  We resonate in our hearts with each other.  

We find this similarity in general amongst each other's aspirations.  We also see this basic sameness and congruence of yearnings in how people feel about their homeland.  

I have seen this theme of the universality of love of one's country in the hymn entitled "This Is My Song."  In this hymn, I have also found the idea that the love of country that one person has can peacefully coexist with the love of country that another person has for a different country.  

In "This Is My Song," we hear 

This is my song, O God of all the nations, 
A song of peace for lands afar and mine.  
This is my home, the country where my heart is, 
Here are my hopes, my dreams, my holy shrine.  
But other hearts in other lands are beating, 
With hopes and dreams as true and high as mine.  

My country's skies are bluer than the ocean, 
And sunlight beams on clover leaf and pine.  
But other lands have sunlight too, and clover, 
And skies are everywhere as blue as mine.  
O hear my song, thou God of all the nations, 
A song of peace for their land and for mine.  

The lyrics of "This Is My Song" are set to the tune of the musical piece entitled "Finlandia," which was written by the composer Jan Sibelius.  Sibelius wrote Finlandia in the midst of the Finnish people feeling oppressed by the Russians.  The piece is evocative of the national struggle of the Finns for freedom.  Finlandia is electrically charged with a pent up sense of frustration and ardent craving to be liberated.  

I found the universality of this longing for personal freedom illustrated this evening in an unexpected way.  By my side was someone with whom I share a fundamental longing, despite the vastly different circumstances in which we have lived up until now.  

I am speaking of Samah, the Saudi Arabian guest we have been hosting for months here at the Catholic Worker House.  Tonight she too was at the performance of Finlandia which was being performed by my fellow Catholic Worker Susan and the rest of her musical band.  

However, I did not know that Samah was there at the performance tonight.  During intermission, an event organizer made an announcement that someone had left sunglasses in the lobby.  Next I saw someone raising her hand.  I did not recognize the person raising her hand and waving, even though it was Samah.  

I thought she was someone responding to the news of the lost glasses.  I thought she was saying she was the one who had lost her glasses.  I perceived her wave as responding to a call that perhaps she didn't even realize was being made.   

Later, in considering that moment of raising one's hand to get someone else's attention, and being mistakenly perceived as responding to a call, I recalled that pivotal scene in the film "North By Northwest."  Cary Grant's character happens to raise his hand to get someone's attention precisely at the moment when someone else's name is being called.  He gets confused with someone else, and from then on the rest of the film depicts the maelstrom of misfortune through which he is dragged, all because people think he is someone he is not.  

However, here, Samah has already been gravely mistaken for being someone she is not.  Someone has already tried to foist a false identity upon her.  

You see, she has been expected to marry a man she does not want to marry.  Others have their expectations of her, conceptions of her which, if followed, would subject her to a life of miserable slavery, trampling down who she has always been meant to be.  

In so doing, others have been turning her world upside down.  She has been subjected to a cyclone of trouble, all because others have tried to force her to be someone she is not.  She has been put through this hardship because they do not see her for who she is.  

And yet I too did not recognize her.  As she waved, she made a gesture as if to say, "Do you recognize me?  Do you see that our dreams are not so different?"  

We all seek to grow into that space that God has prepared for us.  Our work now, in this moment, is to live to our fullest potential in this life.  

We are to live out our lives as ourselves so that we may go to dwell in that space in Heaven that God has prepared for us.  Jesus told His disciples just as He tells us, "I go to prepare a place for you."*  

We all aim to throw off the societal shackles which bind us and keep us in the horrible prison which is created when we do not live as our true selves.  Although we may not consciously realize or acknowledge this truth, we all long to discard the false self which society has tricked us into believing is us.  

The Trappist monk Thomas Merton unmasked the cruel tendency of society to convince us into believing that each of us is to live as the false self that society expects us to be.  We are to believe that we need to buy unnecessary items, that we must listen to advertisements, that we must wear certain clothes.  In all this we are led to put on false personas.  Yet we all desire to be our true selves.  Each of us deeply craves to live out our lives as the true self we have always been meant to be.  

We all hunger to be ourselves.  We all thirst to live the life of love toward ourselves and toward others and toward God that we have always been meant to live.  

On our way, we are hungry because we are suffering from the malnourishment that results from not living as ourselves.  We suffer from the delusion that we are people other than ourselves.  We misperceive others to be people they are not.  When we pick up on these errors, then we are empowered to move past our incorrect assumptions about people and see them for who they are.  

Once I finally realized it was Samah who was waving, that she was waving at me to get my attention, and that she was inviting me over to her, I joined her.  I went and sat next to her.  

During intermission, we laughed at the failure to connect with each other during that moment when she was waving and I was oblivious.  As humans often we miss the message, even when we clearly see it right in front of us.  

Later, when the part of Finlandia was being played which serves as the tune of the hymn entitled "This Is My Song," my tear ducts opened.  As that part of Finlandia was being played, I began to weep.  

It was at that point that I realized that this is my song.  I saw that this song, which speaks of the irrepressible desire to live in true freedom, and thus grow into our true selves, is my song.  And in the very next instant, I thought of Samah.  I saw that this is her song too, that this is the song of the Saudi Arabian woman sitting next to me, even though she has lived a drastically different life from mine.  

This is the song of every human being.  Do we realize it?  Do we hear it?  Do we listen to it?  Do we follow it?  

Even when society tries to squelch this burning desire in our hearts to be free, it is an indefatigable longing in our hearts.  It cannot be repressed forever.  It yearns to burst forth, to get out and be free.   

It is this irrepressible bottled up vitality, of our true life within us, screaming to be fully released and honestly expressed, which is gradually boiling up within us, threatening to burst forth.  Here is an energy which is revolutionary.  This desire revolts against repressive societal expectations which make unreasonable demands upon it, ridiculously expecting it to be untrue to itself.  This pent up life force is volatile; it will not stand for being bottled up.  It is incendiary, threatening to explode if it is not released.  This energy of the true life within us is easily powerful enough to obliterate the false conceptions of ourselves that society has foisted upon us.  

This truth of who we truly are is so charged that it is far more than powerful enough to set us free.  We do indeed share this common desire to better ourselves, to join together, to express ourselves constructively through our work, so may become what we have always been meant to be.  It is this deep yearning that is part of what forges a common bond among people from vastly different backgrounds.  

This is your dream.  This is my dream too.  

Let us support each other in our dreams to be ourselves.  In how we follow our dreams, through being our truest selves, we implicitly encourage others to do likewise.  

This way we can truly love ourselves.  This way we can be empowered to truly love each other as we love ourselves.**  

This way, by being ourselves, by being who we have always been meant to be, by being who God created us to be, by consenting to God's will for us, we are pleasing to God.  Through this way we can enter into the place He has prepared for us.  Amen.  

* John 14:2 
** Matthew 22:39; Mark 12:31; Luke 10:27; Leviticus 19:18; Romans 13:9; Galatians 5:14 

Friday, April 28, 2017

Gift Of Life

None of us would be here if God hadn't created us.  Our lives are gifts from God.  Owing all of our being to God, we are thus called to value and love our lives, and the life of every other person.  

If we realize that we have everything we have because they are all gifts from God, we treasure all that God gives us.  If we truly cherish what God gives, then we value all life, for all life is a gift from God.  


If we truly view all life as precious, then we seek to protect life which will come into being.  When we honestly consider all life valuable, then we seek to protect a fertilized egg which is called to be born as a human being.  


For a while now I have thought about how, once a woman is pregnant, if she takes no steps to intervene in what has already started, then she will give birth to a child.  A process has begun which will result in a human being in the world.  


And so, insofar as I hold dear and respect the sanctity of all human lives, whether they have already been born or will soon be born, for some time I have been wanting to protest against abortion.  Thus when I saw pro-life protesters outside an abortion clinic as I was driving home from Mass today, I pulled over and joined them.  


I walked up to some of the protesters and greeted them.  I picked up one of the spare signs they had resting in a box.  I held the sign as I alternately stood and sat on the sidewalk.  


We were gathered on a busy street.  In each direction three lanes of traffic were flowing.  The speed limit there is 35 miles per hour.  


It's a busier street than the one where I go with other Catholic Workers to protest at least once a month outside the facilities of a manufacturer of armaments.  Thus I suppose it's understandable that today in this pro-life protest, I witnessed more feedback, both positive and negative, than all the reactions I've seen in the dozen or so times I've protested outside the arms manufacturer's location.  


I am not the only Catholic Worker who protests both war-making and abortion.  I see a common thread in protesting both war and abortion, namely the sanctity of life.  I protest nuclear weapons because I value life so much that I do not want human beings to be vaporized by nuclear warheads.  I protest abortion because I value life so much that I do not want fetuses to be robbed of the life they will experience as human beings outside of the womb, which they are already on the path to experiencing.  


In short, I value life.  I oppose abortion.  I aim to stop the arms trade.  I am not in support of people executing anyone through the death penalty.  I do not favor physicians helping patients to commit suicide.  I respect and honor all life; I oppose all attempts to prevent and extinguish life.  


I want to encourage others to value life.  I am glad I was born; I am grateful to God for the life He has given me.  


Life comes into being when a man and a woman choose to share in the reproductive act and thus participate in the miracle of life.  If this process has started, it should be allowed to run its natural course.  What God has allowed to come together, let no person put asunder.  


God holds each life in the palm of His hand.  Let us trust in God to let each life unfold according to His divine plan.  


Let us value the life we have, in our bodies, and in the bodies of others.  Let us appreciate the gifts God has given us and others.  Let us value the lives others can live; let us give them the chances we have had.  Let us value others' lives as we value our own lives.  Let us love others as we love ourselves,* as Jesus has instructed us to do.    


* Matthew 22:39; Mark 12:31; Luke 10:27; Leviticus 19:18; Romans 13:9; Galatians 5:14 

Wednesday, January 25, 2017

Protestors Seek Truth

Why do I write?  I write because I feel called to write.  I write because I seek to reveal the truth.  I write because I cherish the truth.  

I protest because I value the truth.  In the film "Paul VI," Pope Paul VI is about to meet with a discontented young man who is politically disenchanted.  Someone asks the pope, "Why are you meeting with him?"  The pope replies, "He who protests seeks the truth."  

In protesting as a Catholic Worker, I am supported by a nationwide community of other Catholic Workers who also protest.  We seek to reveal the truth, to call attention to the truth, and to cry out with loud disapproval, that injustices are occurring.  

People protest because injustices occur.  When injustice occurs, the perpetrators deny the truth that all human beings were created by God with certain rights which may not be denied to them.  God created us to love and adore Him and to love and respect each other: He created us to glorify Him and praise Him and serve Him and love our neighbor.  We are to love our neighbor as ourselves.*  Thus all persons deserve to be treated with respect, so that we all may flourish and grow as individuals.  When people protest, they object to people being denied such basic rights.  

When the leader of a nation mocks a disabled reporter whose job is to report the truth, we are not encouraged to value the truth.  When the chief executive of a country speaks about being able to grab women's genitalia, women are treated as if they were objects.  When people are demeaned in these ways, the truth of each person's dignity is trampled.  Since an injustice against one person is a violation against everyone, protestors take to the streets to demand respect for people's basic human rights.  

I have been distressed at how someone elected to lead a country has deemed it acceptable to debase others in such flagrant ways.  However, I find it far more disturbing that so many people implicitly approve of such degrading behavior.  

Yet we have been long encouraged to lower our standards for who is fit to run our country.  We live in a country in which it has become increasingly evident that our leaders do not value honesty.  We also live in a country in which it is apparently acceptable for our leaders to drift further and further from the truth.  When our leaders lie to us, we are shown that they do not honor the truth.  Years later, when government officials counter the truth with what are then called "alternative facts," we see that we are governed by people who do not value the truth.  

We live under people in power who implicitly encourage us to ignore the truth that all people deserve to be treated with dignity.  And so protestors take to the streets.  We march and we protest to witness to the truth that all human beings must be accorded their basic human rights, that all persons are to be treated with respect.  

And in such circumstances, how are we to treat the duly elected leader of our country?  We are told, "Honor the king."**  If someone was elected to run the country, we acknowledge that that person was indeed elected to that office.  

Furthermore, we are called to repay disrespect with love.  Jesus directed us, "Love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you."***  For if we do otherwise, we become what we despise.  

Jesus instructed us, "Repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God."****  What belongs to God?  We owe God our allegiance to the truth.  We must be willing to defend the truth.  We must defend all of the truth.  If we defend only part of the truth, then we are defending a half truth.  Since we are not defending all of what we know to be true, we are not being true to ourselves.  We are being half of ourselves.  Then we fail to love either ourselves or our neighbor as ourselves.  

Would we cry out at injustice done to ourselves?  Then we must cry out at injustices committed against others.  Love your neighbor as yourself.  

* Matthew 22:39; Mark 12:31; Luke 10:27; Leviticus 19:18; Romans 13:9; Galatians 5:14 
** 1 Peter 2:17 
*** Matthew 5:44 
**** Mark 12:17 

Friday, January 20, 2017

Love Your Neighbor

Once again I feel the time is ripe to write.  What do I have to say?  I write about who is right in front of me.  I relate what is happening right in front of me.  Although they might seem ordinary and unremarkable, all our interactions are opportunities for making the world a better place.  When we interact with each other, we are invited to make choices in which we love each other.  

As I've pointed out before, in the end all we will have will be the consequences of our own actions.  After we have died, the time for action will be over.  Therefore, the time for action is now.  

And so I urge you to consider what you can do right now.  How do you feel you can best act right now?  As I've previously encouraged, and as Gandhi suggested, "You must be the change you want to see in the world."  

Do you feel there should be more compassion in the world?  Then be more compassionate.  

Do you feel people should be more tolerant?  Show the tolerance you would like to see.  

Do you believe persons should conduct themselves with more decorum and should respect others more?  Show the respect you would like others to show.  

Model the behavior you want to see being displayed.  Show how you feel people should act.  

Recently someone described to me how he envisioned meeting someone holding drastically different political views than he holds.  He said he imagined embracing the person.  Now I am not suggesting that we should always make such a gesture toward such a person.  However, there are other loving ways of responding to someone with whom I am at odds.  I am recalling situations where a person was yelling at someone else and the recipient of the anger replied in a calm, soft, gentle voice, and the tone of the conversation shifted.  We are responsible for what we bring to every interaction we have.  If we respond with love to someone, we can cause the overall tone of the exchange with that person to be more loving.  Do we want love to reign in the world?  Jesus told us to love each other as He has loved us.*  And so we are called to do our best to love our neighbor.  

Love the person who is right in front of you.  Each of us has responsibilities to each other.  Each of us has responsibilities to ourselves.  

I am remembering a young man who often shows up here at the Catholic Worker House.  Here I'll call him "Brendon."  Brendon is probably in his mid to late twenties.  When I saw him earlier this week, he was taking refuge here at the house from some of the rain.  

As we talked, Brendon admitted to me that he takes illicit drugs.  He looked pale.  As he often does, he seemed to have difficulty focusing.  

He asked, "I don't look good, do I?"  

One of the Catholic Workers here replied, slightly softly, shaking his head, "No, you don't."  

"Thank you for your honesty.  I appreciate that."  

"You're welcome.  That's one of the things I'm supposed to do for you, is be honest with you."  

We began to talk with him about how he could enter a drug rehab program.  He said he was getting someone's help to try to get into a program.

I pointed out to him, "You've taken an important first step.  You've admitted you need help.  You've admitted you can't do this without someone else's help."  


We have the responsibility to ourselves to be honest with ourselves.  We have the responsibility to be honest with each other.  

We are called to love ourselves.  We are called to love each other.  

Love yourself.  Love the person right in front of you.  Listen to the person in front of you.  Even though it may be difficult, especially when someone is saying things we find inconsiderate or hurtful, we can choose to try to show that person the love we wish that person would show to us.  

If we respond to hateful behavior with hate, we show the same offensive behavior we abhor.  We create more pain in addition to the pain we already feel.  We become what we hate.  We become hate.  

Instead of continuing the cycle of hate, Jesus calls us to love our enemies, and to pray for those who persecute us.**  Then, by refusing to be like those who distress us and disturb us through their exclusionary and unwelcoming behavior, we can choose to respond in an inclusive, respectful and considerate way.  Then we create the world we want to see.  By modeling the loving behavior we wish to see in the world, we indeed make the world the kind of place we want it to be.   

* John 13:34 
** Matthew 5:44 

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

Love To Give

Recently in a Gospel reading for the day, we heard of Jesus telling a parable:  

Jesus said to his disciples, “A rich man had a steward

who was reported to him for squandering his property.  
He summoned him and said,
‘What is this I hear about you?  
Prepare a full account of your stewardship,
because you can no longer be my steward.’  
The steward said to himself, ‘What shall I do,
now that my master is taking the position of steward away 
from me?  
I am not strong enough to dig and I am ashamed to beg.  
I know what I shall do so that,
when I am removed from the stewardship,
they may welcome me into their homes.’  
He called in his master’s debtors one by one.  
To the first he said, ‘How much do you owe my master?’  
He replied, ‘One hundred measures of olive oil.’  
He said to him, ‘Here is your promissory note.  
Sit down and quickly write one for fifty.’  
Then to another he said, ‘And you, how much do you owe?’  
He replied, ‘One hundred measures of wheat.’  
He said to him, ‘Here is your promissory note; 
write one for eighty.’  
And the master commended that dishonest steward for 
acting prudently.  
For the children of this world
are more prudent in dealing with their own generation
than the children of light.”*

For a while I didn't understand this parable.  Then I read some insightful commentary in the Jerusalem Bible which helped me to grasp part of its meaning.  Typically a steward would receive a commission on the payment of goods to his master.  Presumably the steward's original commission was fifty on the olive oil, and twenty on the wheat.  In directing the master's debtors to write new promissory notes for fifty and eighty, presumably the steward was simply foregoing his original commissions.**    

The master did not commend the dishonest steward for his dishonesty.  The master praised him for his astuteness: the steward, in forfeiting his commissions, made friends with the master's debtors.  


The steward was giving up payments he would have received so the master's debtors would welcome him into their homes.  The steward was acting in a self-serving way.  


Yet we too can choose to let go of things which we feel we are owed, yet for the betterment of others.  We can live more simply in order to help others to live.  When I reflect on these verses, I ask myself, "What can I give up that I feel like I have coming to me?  Instead of keeping something for myself because I feel like I'm entitled to it, can I redirect those funds, that property to some better use than keeping it for myself?"  


Unlike the steward's self-serving motives, we can decide to give to others without any expectation of a return on our gifts.  We can give while expecting not to receive.  


To give is to love.  To give without any hope of receiving in return is to love without conditions.  To give while not expecting anything in return is selflessly giving, giving more of oneself.  


To give is to feel joy.  To give to people who can't give back can be to feel great joy.  In giving to those who can't reciprocate, we can feel a deep joy, because a deep love is expressed.  


* Luke 16:1-8 

** Jerusalem Bible, Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group, Inc. (New York, 1990), p. 1717, note "b" to Luke 16:8